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Balance of the Masculine and the Feminine
by Lency Spezzano, co founder of Psychology of Vision
This was written for 'Visions' magazine in 2004
. Today Lency works from the place of Oneness which recognises that there is only one of us here; that the split between the sexes is an illusion.

In the last year, and in fact, in my life, has been in the balancing of the masculine and feminine aspects of my mind. This came as a surprise to me. I had no idea of the pain I carried inside me about this injury.

Although I had spent a couple of years in the early 70's raising my consciousness about feminism vs. the patriarchy, my good will toward men won out, and it seemed to not be an issue for me. Then I spent a few hours in our August seminar in Tokyo burning through a hidden rage, completely amazed.

Like anyone my age, I was raised in a time when the feminine was devalued.
As I grew up, and grew older, I watched that gradually change. Cultures that for thousands of years had highly valued most things that were masculine, and distrusted and disparaged most things that were feminine, begin to swing like a pendulum back into balance. Not only have we experienced the women's movement, this year we have witnessed the "metrosexual" men's movement -straight urban men who are willing, even eager, to embrace their feminine side. It is quite an upheaval!

At psychological and spiritual levels the balancing of the masculine and feminine offers us great opportunity for development, expression and satisfaction. Men and women both are recognizing that without the development and expression of their feminine nature they are incomplete and imbalanced.

Interestingly enough, the Sacred Feminine was perhaps the first aspect of God to be recognized by humanity.
For the greater part of human history. God was worshipped as a female. It is only in the past few thousand years that the majority of cultures have conceived God to be masculine. The modern masculine religions probably developed, in part, as a reaction against the powerful feminine religions that preceded them. I expect that it was similar to the way current feminist Goddess worshipers don't put much energy into honouring the masculine aspect of God.

Why not honour the divinity of both the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine?
Some religious sects throughout history have been able to do it. The early Jewish tradition, for example, involved ritualistic sex in the Temple - the belief being that the Holy of Holies in Solomon's Temple housed not only God but his powerful female equal, Shekinah.

The widespread early Christian sect, the Gnostics (see the Dead Sea Scrolls and the Coptic Scrolls discovered in Upper Egypt in the '40s and '50s) worshipped a Supreme Being who was both male and female: the Matropater.or Mother/Father God. Women in Gnostic communities had equality with men, and could be priests and bishops.The Gnostics questioned the value of suffering and martyrdom. They worshipped a succession of masters, who came in the centuries after Jesus. They practiced meditation, had a more relaxed view of sex (than, say, St. Paul) and emphasized Christ's teaching of the "kingdom of heaven within," versus a power-base in the outer world. In one of the Gnostic texts, "The Gospel of Mary," Jesus taught "There is no sin." He taught the law of cause and effect, saying, "This is why you become sick and why you die: it is the result of your actions...." And he advised, "Be in harmony.... If you are out of balance, take inspiration from manifestations of your true nature." I am amazed at how much this sounds like A Course in Miracles.

But 2000 years ago the balance of the masculine and feminine just was not to be. The pendulum was swinging with great momentum toward the masculine, and nothing could stop it.

In the early Christian Church, for example, an extremely masculine movement occurred, something that could be considered history's largest corporate takeover: the merger between the Catholic Church and the Roman Empire. In AD 312, the Emperor Constantine all but dictated the history of the Western world for the next 1,600 years.

History tells us the Church converted Constantine.
The reality appears to be that he converted it. Constantine was a lifelong pagan who was baptized on his deathbed, possibly because he was too weak to protest. In Constantine's day, Rome's official religion was sun worship - the cult of Sol Invictius, or the Invincible Sun - and Constantine was its head priest.

Unfortunately for him, a growing religious turmoil was gripping Rome. Three centuries after the crucifixion of Jesus Christ, Christ's followers had multiplied exponentially. Christians and pagans began warring, and the conflict grew to such proportions that it threatened to tear Rome in two.

Constantine decided something had to be done.
In 325 A.D. he decided to unify Rome under a single religion, Christianity. He could see that Christianity was on the rise, and he backed the winning horse. He converted the sun-worshipping pagans to Christianity by infusing pagan symbols, dates and rituals into the growing Christian tradition.

He created a hybrid religion that was acceptable to both parties. Egyptian sun discs became the halos of Catholic saints. Pictograms of Isis nursing her miraculously conceived son Horus became the blueprint for our modern images of the Virgin" Mary with the Baby Jesus. And virtually all of the elements of the Catholic ritual-the mitre, the altar, the doxology and communion (the act of God-eating) were taken directly from earlier pagan mystery religions.

The pre-Christian God Mithras - called "the Son of God" and "the Light of the World" was born on December 25, died, was buried in a rock tomb, and then resurrected in three days. December 25 is also the birthday of Osiris, Adonis, and Dionysus. The new­born Krishna was presented with gold, frankincense and myrrh. Even celebrating the Sabbath on Sunday, instead of on Saturday, the Jewish holy day, was shifted to coincide with the pagan's veneration of the sun.

During this fusion of religions, Constantine needed to strengthen the new Christian tradition, and held the ecumenical gathering known as the Council of Nicaea. In addition to the approval of the Nicene Creed, many aspects of Christianity were debated and decided upon by a vote. They decided upon a standardized date of Easter (the altered observance of Passover) which was named after the pagan sun goddess. They defined the role of the bishops, and established the rules for the administration of sacraments.They voted to reject the belief in reincarnation (prior to the Council of Nicaea the idea of reincarnation was an integral part of the Christian faith), and removed many references about it from the Gospels and the rest of the canon. But most importantly, they voted on the question of the divinity of Jesus.

Establishing Christ's divinity was critical to the further unification of the Roman Empire and to the new Vatican power base. But whether Christ was God (a belief held by those who followed the teachings of St. Paul) or a human being who had been given life to serve God's will in a special, divine way (the belief held by those who followed the teachings of St. Peter -including the Gnostics) was highly debated in the early Church. The delegates were "invited" to sign a document Constantine had drawn up to formalize this decision. Those who signed were to stay on in Nicaea as Constantine's guests at his 20th anniversary celebrations. Those who refused were to be banished immediately. All but two signed, but on returning home, several others realized they had betrayed their consciences, and wrote to the Emperor accordingly.

It was too late. The ink had dried. Jesus had become "Very God" for all time. Mary, a mother of several children who had never drawn much theological attention, soon became "Ever Virgin" and "Mother of God," and finally, in the 20th century, "Queen of Heaven."

By officially endorsing Jesus as the Son of God, Constantine turned Jesus into a deity who existed beyond the scope of the human world, an entity whose power was unchallengeable. Every citizen of Rome was now a member of the new religion, who could redeem themselves only via the established sacred channel - the Roman Catholic Church. Many scholars claim that the early Church literally stole Jesus from His original followers in order to expand its own power. Constantine took advantage of Christ's substantial influence and importance, and in doing so, shaped Christianity as we know it today.

Constantine then destroyed the thousands of documents that chronicled Jesus' life as a prophet who attained Christhood, and commissioned and financed a Bible that embellished those gospels that made Him godlike. Those who chose the forbidden gospels over his were declared heretics.

The pursuit of heretics who believed in reincarnation continued for a thousand years. Likewise, the Gnostic movement recurred from time to time - most notably in 13th century France. There the Cathars of the Languedoc region also had masters (of both sexes) who believed in reincarnation, recognized the feminine principle in spirituality, meditated, were mainly vegetarian and were essentially non-violent. In 1209 the Pope sent an army of 30,000 into the Languedoc. Every Cathar man, woman and child was put to the sword. Every town and crop was razed, and virtually every relic of their civilization was destroyed. The Church took over their fertile lands.

How would the course of events have been changed if the Gnostic groups been more organized and unified in the early days of Christianity?

What if the New Testament Gospels were not Mathew, Mark, Luke and John, but were instead the Gospel of Philip, the Apocalypse of Peter, the Book of Thomas the Contender and the Gospel of Mary? What if Christians had been taught that because there is no sin, guilt is not real (similar to how A Course in Miracles teaches there is no sin, only mistakes, and attack is a call for love)?

 What if Christians in the middle ages had been told that if bad things happened to them, it was not because their neighbour was a witch, but it in some way a result of their own actions? What if Christians were taught that their inner nature is goodness, and not the evil that came from a curse handed down from Eve? That the Spirit of Christ dwells within each of us? That the pursuit of harmony and balance is the way to live our lives?

How would the Christianity of today be different? How would the world be a different place? Would the Crusades, the Inquisition and witch hunts have occurred? What about the European conquest of the Americas, slavery in the New World, the Protestant-Catholic wars, the Holocaust, the genocide in Rwanda, the destruction of our delicate ecosystem, the recent war in Iraq?

How would the balancing effect of the feminine have affected every aspect of our lives? What can we do now, through the healing of our own minds, to bring about true relationship and true marriage of the masculine and feminine?

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