What's holding you back? Are you wasting time on trivia and resisting the next step in your life?

I hope you're having a good summer. For many people I know it's been very stressful. Have you noticed that projects have been slow to get off the ground recently? That people have been ambivalent? Changing their minds? Irritated?

Have you  been sick or are feeling such things as sadness and loss, grief, overwhelming despair, deep disappointment, exhaustion and burnout? Are you questioning your worth, your value? Are you thinking about giving up?

Problems are Wake Up Calls
When we are about to take the next step forward in our lives we can encounter accidents, a serious illness, a fight or some huge problem that occupies every waking moment. The bigger the problem the closer we are to making a giant step forward toward our purpose. The ego is very inventive. It gets cleverer and tricks us. The more we feel like giving up, resigning, the more we are resisting our birth! I use the analogy of a pregnant woman in labour when the contractions stop. She can think its time to go home, in fact its a pause before the final big push.

One theme I've been aware of is indecision and delay
As the quote above states, it can be tragic to delay. Delay in taking action, delay in speaking what needs to be said, delay in saying 'I love you', 'I'm sorry' or 'Will you forgive me?'. Delay in committing.

Procrastination is the thief of time. The ego loves delay. It loves excuses and reasons why it's better to stay still than to move. (The ego is that small part of us that believes in keeping things the way they are.)  So I'd like you to become conscious of the excuses you have.

Giving Up
Chuck Spezzano in his Enlightenment Pack of cards describes Death Temptation as:-

"There is a kind of death which is called death temptation (either real or symbolic) which is a form of reaction to disappointment, a fight or curse against life. This form of death becomes a kind of power struggle in which you are consciously or subconsciously drawn toward self- destruction. You feel that the only thing which would truly end the pain or exhaustion you are experiencing is death.

But in fact when you have a death temptation it is a chance to look at your circumstances and experience a rebirth although, because of the conflict you are in, you may think that there is no way out. Actually, there are many ways out, and you are being asked to be willing to change and have a rebirth in your life.

Conflict occurs when two parts of your mind are moving in different directions. One part may be projected on to someone, some group, or the situation outside you. The other part of your mind you identify with feels stuck. This can turn into an unlivable situation - but this is only because you are unwilling to let go of something and to change."

So, the key out of this is - Are you willing to have a new birth in your life, which comes about by truly choosing life?

In this new birth, you need to acknowledge that life can begin again (springtime follows every winter) but you must be willing to experience it. When you are faced with a death temptation, forgiveness and self-forgiveness are the key healing concepts. Through your willingness, and by asking for help from your Higher Mind, you can bring about the rebirth easily, and with grace.

Imagine you could help the whole world and save time, money and suffering by choosing rebirth rather than death? Be willing to allow yourself and the situation to change, perhaps drastically. Don't forget that even 'impossible' situations can be answered by miracles.

EXERCISE
Imagine you are at a crossroads.  One of the choices facing you will take you forward in a whole new direction, the other circles back until you are at the same crossroads again, a few years from now.  To take the new way you are called upon to be a leader; that is to make a new choice to take the new way.

When you do say Yes! to this new direction, Yes! to life and Yes! to your higher mind, you may experience a period of disruption.  It is important to remember that this is just the birth process, which is needed to complete the change.  Don't stop here; trust the process and you will continue moving through this place until you've reached a new plateau in your life.

Changing our mind
Resistance comes from fear, fear of change and fear of the future. The fear is that we think the future will be like the past. To understand the Law of Attraction imagine you have a Magic Genie that says 'Your Wish is My Command'. What we wish for invariably comes true!

Unfortunately we tend to have more negative thoughts than positive ones. If you catch yourself thinking about having a cold or an accident, cancel the thought immediately. Say 'Cancel, cancel, cancel' three times. One of the biggest tests of our lives is to learn to master our thoughts.

And in doing so we can change our future.

warmest wishes

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